i was in the Falklands for 3 months and then came home. Shortly afterwards we were posted to a different location. We had a leaving party at my house where we had a few friends over. At the end of the party where there were myself, my wife and 2 guys left. My wife had been chatting to the 2 guys for a good while while I stretched out on a chair on the other side of the room. I then had a sleep. Next thing I remember that the guys were leaving so I just lay there pretending to still be asleep. The 3 of them went out to the back door and it was all quiet so I wondered what was happening. After a while my wife said “that’s enough” and then they left. When I confronted her and accused her of kissing one or both of them she denied it. I asked her what she had meant when she said ”that’s enough” and she said she had said it because they were messing around. Thought it was strange that they were messing around but there was no noise at all. Obviously I can’t prove that she was kissing anyone but it’s a 99% chance that she was. I don’t know what possessed her to kiss one or both of them. I also suspect that one of them might have been visiting her while I was away in the Falklands to see if she was alright and also may have been taking her into the Sergeants mess for drinks as she would have been unable to go by herself.