My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Recently I've got a new well-paid job and we often have quarrels on this topic. He feels ashamed that I earn more than him, though I'm okay with that and it doesn't matter for me. When I say that he should find a new job if he wants to have bigger salary he gets mad but I don't demand it, it's just like an advise.
On this circumstances we have terrible relationship, we mostly keep silence when are together and spend the weekend separately.He goes to his friends, as he says and I stay at home.
I just wonder what if he lies to me? What if he has an affair and that's why he spends the weekend not with me and lives with me just because he has not enough money to rent a good apartment.I want to check him and read that people use spying applications. I've been choosing between these 2: mspylite and flexispy.
Do you think it's a good idea? Maybe somebody used it also, tell about your experience, does it actually work?