I dated my ex about three years ago but I dumped him because he cheated on me. About 1-2 years later he asked to get back with me so I agreed but same break up reason over, and over again. Believe it or not, it happened 5 times! I had it so I decided to reject people that asked me out. Until I met someone and we both liked each other and communicated everyday. I confessed and so did he. He is one of the greatest people I've ever met. We always reviewed our promises to each other and so far we have a healthy relationship. I'm still with him at this present day and I hope it won't come to an end. So my advice to people that has been cheated on, keep in mind that cheaters will keep cheating! Don't let your mind fool you, thinking they're a great person after what they've done. Yes, it's hard to move on because you might love him/her so much, but it will take time to recover. This leads to losing trust and thinking negatively. Try and do things that will distract yourself after the break up, and just think positively! Every life isn't perfect and you won't get the perfect man right away. Don't chase for a loyal person. Let them come to you. Don't lose hope! I believe in you and if you ever feel unloved, there will always be at least one person in your heart that truly loves you and they're waiting for the right time to go by and meet you. I'm sorry this was pretty lengthy buuuuut I mean all of this truly by heart.