Hi, my boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship since February this year. I am from the Philippines. We have been together for 5 months now. He has been ****** so naive and I am not sure if he is really that or something else is up. In January, he traveled and slept in one room with another woman for 20 days and he said that there is nothing wrong with it and that he did nothing wrong, which I gave the benefit of the doubt to. He is back in Czech Republic now and he has been going out with other women and wants to totally ignore me he is with them. He said they are just friends and he just wants to be polite, I don’t know if this cultural or I am just overreacting but I really have a bad feeling about all these and I want to find out. I tried to tell him about my worries but he just gets mad every time. I have been really working hard to save up so I can follow him in Czech soon so we an be together. I hope you, guys can help me :(
If he is cheating, then it is cause for concern. There is obviously a loss of focus on you and I think you should set him free and use that money you saved and put it into something more important. You are setting yourself up for a broken heart. One sided love can only lead to devastation. Just my opinion
What ever you do DO NOT waste your hard earned money on going over to be with him , Trust Me !!
He just used you to get him some xxx sorry to say so bluntly. You seem like a good 👍 decent girl you should find yourself guy who will treat you like your the only girl in this world. Your heart is telling you the truth and all you got to do is listen to it. Hope you kick him to the carb.
Wow, this is a very delicate situation. Mistrust in a relationship is very bad! If such problems have already begun now, then thank God that you are not married. Because you would have exhausted yourself and then would have been treated for depression for a long time, like my ex-wife. She was very jealous of me while I was traveling on business trips, and then at one point she just filed documents for online divorce in Virginia . Now she has terrible depression and I don't know how to help her at all. She's going crazy most likely