I think it's not just a man or a woman. The problem is two partners. It's more likely that they can't agree between themselves.

It seems to me that the first thing to do is to conduct a verbal abuse define. The most effective strategy is to call the abuser out every time he attacks you with his words. According to Psychology Today , the natural instinct to respond to verbal abuse is to try to give a rational explanation. But the thing is, you can't convince a verbal abuser, so the easiest method is to walk away from the abuser

The reasons may be different, but most often I think that the reason for divorce is adultery.

Now in order to figure out where to go, you have to think about it, because many people do not even know it. I just know from experience that if you have psychological problems then you can't trust amateurs who will only make things worse. For example here I found a review on my therapist and it helped me decide whether to sign up there or not. Read the preliminary analysis, too, and then make a decision.

It takes two to tango. If you get verbally abused, I am sure that you abused your partner too. And maybe beat him or her up. So you get what you deserve.

I once dated a Libra woman and we were like a cat and a dog. Quarelled all the time. She even abused me verbally too, so I wanted to dump her. Then I read an article https://lulz.com/gaining-the-heart-of-a-libra-woman-9529/ and realized that I hadn't done anything to win her heart before. So after a while our relationship so much improved that we are still together.