There's no such thing as "wasn't born to love or be loved". It sounds like a rock album from the 80s, but not like a real-life fact at all. You need to communicate with more people, even on dating websites in canada is a lot better than nothing, so just get yourself together and don't stop believing.

Why are you so confident that it can't be your own fault? Just be more open to people, and you'll find someone eventually